2009 has turned out to be more eventful than I had ever imagined. A few years ago, for some reason, I just kept having this feeling that 2008 was the year that was going to turn my life around. In a way, that had turned out to be quite true. My career and love life took a turn, one for the better, and the other for the worse. 2009 has been a year of paddling like crazy underwater while trying to look as smooth as a swan above it.
I have not travelled so much as I have in 2009. In this year alone, I have been to:
1. KL
2. Singapore
3. Manila
4. Ho Chi Minh
5. Bangkok
6. Kobe
7. Tokyo
8. Canberra
9. Seoul x 2
10. Sydney
And now, I’m about to head back to Penang for a best friend’s wedding. I am tired.
I have no qualms in admitting that I have the dream job that many people can only hope to get. I get paid to travel around the world and all I have to do is keep people happy and informed. In most cities, I coordinate everything from home and when I arrive, I expect it all to fall into place (of course, sometimes, it doesn’t). All the years of slaving away and learning everything from scratch is starting to pay off as I see myself gaining more experience and becoming wiser.
My travels have taught me independence, patience and self security. Travelling solo made me realise that even if I never find that someone to share my life with, I know I can still be happy. My dependency on another person seems less important now as I learn to appreciate the person I am.
It has been one long and winding road and I look forward to what the new future brings.
Happy new year y’all. I hope you have a good one.
I wouldn’t worry to much about finding that special some-one… It’s amazing how being independent, self-sufficient and patient seems to attract similar sort of men…
Happy 2010!
JD